Same-sex "marriage" - part 2
Dear friends in Christ, and His children through the cross,
Last month, I commented on the recent court ruling in Iowa regarding same-sex marriages. Now the media storm around the issue has begun to cool, and because nothing has changed in the past two months, new news has taken its place. Still, though, the offense and outrage at the court and the concept of same-sex marriages remains. As we continue to live in the shadow of these developments, it is important to remember why we reject the concept of same-sex “marriages,” and to be on guard against several excesses which often occur surrounding this issue.
Our church holds the position that marriage is between one man and one woman because that is the position of God as expressed in the Bible. (Leviticus 18:22, Leviticus 20:13, Romans 1:24-26, 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, and 1 Timothy 1:8-10, etc.) However, we do not hold this position because we view the Bible as simply a rule-book for life. Neither do we do so in order to build a “pure” society which precisely reflects God’s Law. We believe as we do and defend the true definition of marriage out of love for other people. We know that disobedience to God’s law has natural consequences which we do not want them to face, but more importantly, we know that anyone who clings unrepentantly to their sin is rejecting God’s forgiveness and choosing a path toward eternal punishment.
Often those who oppose same-sex marriages allow their devoted opposition to sinful behavior to carry them past a line where they see those who practice it as enemies rather than neighbors. While we do not compromise the Biblical declaration that homosexual behavior is sinful, our goal is to work toward the repentance and salvation of our neighbor rather than their alienation and condemnation. Too often, Christians’ outlook on this issue becomes so adversarial that they are no longer able to see homosexual neighbors as fellow sinners in need of a savior, but it is entirely possible to oppose a behavior, yet live in a civil way as neighbors to those who engage in it.
This principle does not apply to this specific sin alone. Whenever we allow our opposition to something sinful to become adversarial, it is evidence of pride which leads us to believe that our sins are somehow less than theirs. When we view homosexual behavior (or any sexual behavior, for that matter) as a bigger sin than our gossip, dishonesty, lust, or other sins, we have crossed the line from defending truth to pridefully trying to justify ourselves. The difference is not in the type of sin, but whether it is has been forgiven. May we always recognize our unrepentant neighbors, whether their sins are the same or different than ours, as fellow sinners in need of Jesus, who He desires to bring to repentance.
[Pastor's article from St. John's Messenger newsletter, June 2009]

